Stages of a BROKEN HEART
I can call this my Little Memoir of my one experiences with the so called thing about Love ....
LOVE and TO BE LOVED by someone is such a wonderful thing, however sometimes there are circumstances that this uber happy feeling will become HISTORY ... and it just comes without any warning.
Having a broken heart is one of the worst feeling you could have experience as a person, nothing can prepare you for it ... you even go to a trance that it feels like the whole world had stopped moving and it practically makes you insane for quite some time ( from my own experience I should know nakakaloka! )
So what are these stages of a BROKEN Heart.
1. Denial - We tend to deny that it's over as in over na talaga ang hirap idagest ika nga sa tagalog , para ka mababaliw . So if it helps , confide to someone whom you trust and can lend you words of wisdom.
2. Anger & Depression - We eventually have mixed emotions we are super angry of course that lahat na ata ng cuss words e nagamit mo na . Then there's the tendency of staying away from close friends and even family members .
3. Stay away from the EX - We often hear people say,
" WELL YOU GUYS CAN BE FRIENDS " hmmm ... I can say is " YES " , if you are TOTALLY OVER him already na kahit iparada nya sa harap mo na may iba na sya , it won't hurt you not a 'lil bit .
It is good to be friends with the ex when you have HEALED completely and ready to be friends with him. But after a breakup it's not good to go parading yourself in front of him because you have this notion that since you're thinking of him , maybe he is thinking of you too ( reality girls , guys are really different when dealing with their emotions ). You don't want to look like a desperada every time you write to him, talk to him or visit his house, you're taking a step backward instead of forward.
4. Acceptance & Learning- To be able to truly move on, you have to fully digest what happened to turn the relationship sour. Identify the reasons that contributed to the breakup, what role you played in those reasons and what you will do differently in the future for a successful relationship. Don't beat yourself up. Relationships run their course for a reason, and they prepare you for the time when you actually do find Mr. Right. You learn with every experience in life, and breakups are no different.
There are 2 quotes come to mind when healing a broken heart:
TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS
and
WHERE ONE DOOR CLOSES, ANOTHER ONE OPENS
two quotes that are yeah cheesy, but absolutely true.
While you may not be able to see the light at the end of the dark tunnel now, the day will come when you'll know that your broken heart has officially healed and you can
LAUGH OUT LOUD
when you look back at those painful memories .Remember WHAT GOES AROUND , COMES AROUND
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